Sunday, October 23, 2005

More Shit A Bitch Hates

The thing this bitch absolutely hates the most is:

Men that beat women. Men that emotionally abuse women. Men that rape women. Men in general that are fucktard wads of shit that do this shit. Moreover...this bitch really hates CHURCH pastors that condone and assist men to propagate this shit towards women.

This bitch has seen it all when it comes to churches condoning the shit. However a bitch has really noticed especially with the proliferation of internet forum shit that there are a lot of so called christain men that condone this shit by saying that a woman MUST submit to her husband 100% all the time yuck yuck...bleh.....

Now this bitch kindly informed these fucktards that 100% submission was not possible as there were some men that were abusive fucktards. (This bitch was actually nice and did not call them fucktards but merely pointed out their shortcomings...ie: whores, gambling away the rent money etc.)

These men and one woman condoned the abusive behavior. This bitch is sooooo upset she is seriously considering outing the whole website as well as the individuals.

So heres the story home gamers....gather round cause its a good 'un....

When a bitch was in the 2nd grade the moms married the step monster. A bitch watched for YEARS as this motherfucker whupped up on and cheated on her moms. Of course this bitch learned how to be abused and her first marriage was hotbed of some serious abusive shit. But one day a bitch looked around...took a real good look at moms and said to herself: "damn a bitch does not want to end up like this" and a bitch split. Moms to this day is still pissed at me 28 years later. Go fucking figure.

To all you women out there that are being abused:

TELL EVERYONE YOU KNOW. When they do not believe you tell someone else and get the fuck out. GET THE FUCK OUT DO YOU HEAR ME!!!!

Do not bother to tell the pastor .....he will not believe your ass. Go to a local womens shelter and get some help.Do not let your ass get whipped up on one more time. Take your kids if you have them and GO!

A man wants a good wife? Well then he better start doing the shit that makes a woman want to respect his ass.

Here is the bitches ideal of marriage...actually one that she lives.

1. Love is love and business is business.
The corporation belonged to MY ass BEFORE I met YOUR ass.

2. I am not your damn slave. You are not my damn slave.

3. We are married...that means no other third parties in our relationship.

4. Respect my ass and I will respect yours.

5. As long as bills are paid and my obligations are met I will shop if there is something I want. I will buy your clothes and dress your ass because you are a man and are incapble of doing it for yourself. Do not even THINK about getting fitted for a suit by yourself.

6. We will discuss everything as equal partners. Neither is higher or lower. Both of our opinions are valuable. Winning is not the goal...the right decision is the goal.

7. We will go to the wall for one another to help each other reach our dreams and goals in life.

8. If someone fucks up there will be consequences.

9. Share your heart about money. Be accountable and on the same page as to where you are going financially.

10. Live for each other.

There have to be rules, boundaries and most of all there must be respect. Think about it...if a child watches their father beat and disrespect their mother is that child going to pay any atttention at all to whatever discipline the mother tries to give. Fuck hell NO! If mom's worth shit to pops why should a young 'un listen to her? She just abdicated all authority by letting herself be abused.

I love my moms. Do I respect her...listen to her advice..? Please. She gave that shit up a long time ago. I have to keep it light no personal shit discussed at all.

No woman should be beaten. Ever. If you know of anyone who faces this kind of life...step in...find the name of a local shelter and see if they have room. Then show up with boxes and friends and save someones life.

Help a woman become a Babe In Total Control of Herself....

BITCH

3 comments:

Maven said...

AOB, you wouldn't happen to listen to Michael Baisden's Love, Lust and Lies radio show, do you?

I shit you not, the topic discussed last night was this very topic. And I agree with you, wholeheartedly, about pastors and other folks (ENABLERS!) who guilt women into tolerating this type of women-hating-shit all in the name of God or family. Some pastors have not progressed further than that ancient idea of the inherent evilness that is woman. Lilith (eve's predecessor) was evil (which must be woman hating slang for "barren"), and Eve was evil because of that whole eating of the apple thing.

There's a line from the Color Purple which is my mantra and my line in the sand when it comes to domestic abuse,"I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me."

AOB said...

Nugget, I do not lisen to that show but another bitch must find it. Thanks for the tip!

Maven said...

http://www.michaelbaisden.com/